Soe Reality

The worst thing that can happen to you is dating or marrying someone who tortures your emotions and destroys you to your Loved ones and yet appear like a Saint.
If you don't work on excelling before you marry it's your business
Make use of this your single stage before you start dating or think of marriage
People are wicked and willing to do anything to protect their image and spoil you to gain favour or whatever.
Be patient in choosing 👂
Don't rush if possible investigate hime/her very well before you consider a step (friendship/relationship/marriage)
You don't know people until you know them really.