Phoenixverse

Dear God, Today felt heavier than usual. Please lighten the weight I’m not meant to carry. Amen♥️🥰

What do they mean by devalued at 30?

Dear woman,
That false narrative is misguided and very strategic.

There's something deeply affirming about how many women begin to feel more grounded, confident and self-aware in their 30s. Many spent their 20s learning through trial and error, navigating relationships, careers and identity.

By their 30s, personal growth, emotional maturity, and clarity of values all come together and they start standing more firmly in their truth.

This patriarchal narrative pushing the idea that women are somehow "less valuable" after 30, reveals more about the systems than the women they attempt to define. Because a woman who feels her best, more whole, assertive, and self-aware is harder to control, harder to market to or diminish.

As a woman, that narrative was set to interrupt your rising sense of self-worth right at the point you move towards fully embracing it. But the beauty is that many women are not buying into it anymore.

Have you ever imagined vegetable calling flower perishable? Projection is wild.

You have to know yourself, because people will project themselves and throw their insecurities at you like it’s your problem. Stay solid.