Gabriella Coaching - Life Coach

“Why don’t I have butterflies when we kiss?”

“Is it normal that I am not dying to get a text?”

“Is it normal that I feel super chill and relaxed?”

"Do I just don’t care that I am not stressed out?”

If you got used to intense, full of drama and constant ups and downs in your relationships, it might be confusing when you hook up with someone who makes you feel safe, super chill and relaxed.

Having intensity and passion doesn't always make a good relationship. Long term relationships require other qualities too, like ability to cooperate in life, support for each other's difficulty, having the same goals or common interest or finding your purpose in your role as a partner. Feeling calm and not needy is also a great experience. It means you are free to be yourself and not needing the other person's validation to feel valued. When the relationship enhances who you are is what makes it work. Sometimes it looks different than you have imagined, and that is what can be confusing.

Instead of intensity, aim for intimacy.
Much more empowering and makes the relationship actually work.

You want to know what the difference is? Jump on a free call with me and I'll walk you through 👢.
Link in Bio.

Trust issues can take so many forms.
This one is only one of them.

But whatever it is for you, make sure you get clear on who's the trust issue is and to get clear on your bonderies.

Book your free discovery call to get right on track! Link in the comments 👇.

Death isn’t the opposite of life, it’s the opposite of birth.

Whaat??? This thought blew my mind.

Life is what is in between. 💡👍

The opposite of life can’t be death, it’s the non-existence.

You see, if there wasn’t for birth and death, life wouldn’t be possible.

So let’s STOP worrying about DEATH, it’s not going anywhere.

And let’s start focusing on WTH is going on with this LIFE!

How to live it?? This is the only thing we have some control over!

Does it sucks? YES

Is it unfair? YES

Is it painful sometimes? YES

But it’s also Beautiful and Miraculous and Loving and Tickling and Funny

And I’m not saying Hire me as your LIFE COACH so you can learn how to focus only on positives and then you’ll be happy ever after.

What I say is, if you feel stuck or struggle with moving forward in your life but you really want to do something about it, let's talk.
I can help you figure out your way out of it.
I can help you figure out how to make this place more pleasant and more joyful for you.

So if this is something you want, just hit ne up in dm or you can book a free call with me. Link in bio.

My Free Training on How to have a relationship you Love is still on.
Next week is the week 3.

You can watch the videos and attend the q&a session we are going to have next week.
The tradnng is accessible for you in the Facebook group. You can watch it any time.

Sign up now so you can learn

💥 Where is the stress and anxiety coming from?
💥How to manage stress other than what you already know.
💥Why do you feel disconnected in your marriage?
💥How to shift from resentment to genuine connection with your partner

Link in Bio. Drop a comment if you have questions.

"If you work hard enough and do all the right things, you gain enough control in life to ensure safety and happiness for yourself and your loved ones.” Familiar?

We can call that the illusion of control.

The reason that we are so anxious is because in the back of our mind we know that control is an illusion.

But control is not always a losing game, there are so many things you can control.

You can’t control the waves, that’s not your business, but the way you surf on them is what makes you feel in control.

So instead of:   How can I fight it or control it?

The right questions would be: 

How can I surf with that?
How can I turn it into a gift?

The difference is huge, it feels different. 

The first question takes your power immediately. Because you know it’s impossible.

The second question gives your power back because your surfer skills are in your hands.

Sometimes sadness happens in the world, just like now.

You can let the sadness be there and not take control over you.

Remember, sadness is an emotion. It’s in your control. What do you want to do with it?

Taking responsibility over things you can control is the first step to a better life and better marriage. I can help you take back the control and make strong decisions on what surfing skills you want to master. Hop on a free discovery call. Link in Bio.

😂😂 I find it incredibly creative!! 🤩😃