Feven Beyene

Wives and moms it’s time to break the silence and find freedom 🤗🤗

Whether you’re married, pregnant, waiting for your blessing, or raising toddlers and teens—how’s life really treating you? How’s marriage? How are you handling the hard moments with your spouse? And for those pregnant mamas—how’s morning sickness? Mood swings? Hormones?
And for the new mamas—how was labor? I remember mine vividly. Both of my labors were relatively for a short period of time, but I had never experienced a pain like that in my life. Honestly, I cannot even describe it—ahhh!😔😔 And for the mamas who delivered by C-section—how’s recovery going? How’s breastfeeding your little one after that major surgery? (ይሄን እንኳን ብዙም ባላውቀውም የቅርብ ጓደኞቼ ግን በደምብ ነግረውኛልl). And both mamas how are you handling postpartum depression?
For those with toddlers or teenagers, how are your kids? How’s disciplining them? Balancing work and being there for them? I remember how hard those moments were for me. Even though I was surrounded by people,(people who were there for me, who were kindhearted and amazing) I felt completely alone, I felt like no one could ever understand my pain.
The first problem I faced was not knowing I wasn’t alone. Ecclesiastes 1:9 reminds us, there’s nothing new under the sun. እናቴ the struggles you’re facing aren’t specifically made for you. Someone else has walked this path or is walking it now, or will in the future. Ayzon you are not alone.
The second problem was silence, I kept all of it to myself. I observed other moms and wives around me, always seeming perfect—perfect wives, perfect moms—and I thought my struggles were too messy to share. So I chose to stay silent, በነገርሽ ላይ ፤ do you know keeping silent often stems from Pride, fear of Judgment or shame which are all rooted in sin, so I had a fear that if I told anyone they might judge me and say that I am a bad wife or a bad mom. And the tricky thing about sin: it isolates you, whispers that you’re helpless, and convinces you that you have to carry everything alone.

Sin also keeps you in a “victim mentality,” making pain your identity instead of something you walk through. It produces guilt, brokenness, and mistrust.
So what’s