SkeletonMan

Sometimes I wonder if I share too much.

Then I remember something a teacher once told me:

"The questions we're most afraid to ask are often the ones that need to be asked the most."

So... here we go again.

Lately I've had the feeling that I'm constantly learning, yet somehow I keep making the same mistakes.

The ensuing frustration can be tough..

But maybe the frustration isn't a sign that I'm failing.

Maybe it's a sign that I'm getting better at recognizing the difference between what helps me grow and what keeps me stuck.

If that's true, then it makes sense that the frustration feels stronger. I'm becoming clearer about the life I actually want.

There's also an old battle taking place.

The one between my inner critic and the friend I'm trying to become to myself.

I'm guessing many of us know that feeling.

Not the struggle to be perfect or avoid making mistakes.

No, the struggle to treat ourselves with the same patience, understanding, and kindness that we so easily offer other people.

So today, instead of only thinking about the next goal, I'm also taking a moment to appreciate something I've actually done.

Working on a new batch of light paintings.

They´re gonna be AWESOME !

Happy Sunday. 🌱

At the end of 2025, I quit my job as a lawyer.

On paper, the plan was simple. In reality, much more complicated: move to Mexico and pursue art full-time.

Now I’m back in Copenhagen.

Not because the plan has changed or been abandoned, but because a new phase of the transition has begun, one that rarely appears on social media.

The ordinary days after the big decision.

A period where you walk through the same streets as before, but as a slightly different person.

And who exactly is that person?

Right now, I’m experiencing a strange mix of freedom, uncertainty, hope, and doubt. Perhaps that’s inevitable when you leave behind an identity you’ve spent years building and begin creating a new one.

Because this is where the real work starts, right.

Not in the big decisions.

But in the small steps that follow.

Many of you know that I work with death as an artistic theme. But lately, I’ve been thinking less about death and more about its opposite:

How to patiently and deliberately create a life you actually want to live.

Day by day.

Not because you know exactly where you’re going.

But because something inside you knows it’s the right direction.

Happy Sunday 🌱