Focus-180

BECOMING MEN: RUJULA COACHING CLASS

Alhamdulillah. I just finished the 10th class of my program, Becoming Men: Rujula Coaching. We've come a long way at establishing a holistic theory and practice of manhood.

I started from the ground up by establishing an understanding of the proper sources and order of knowledge.

We marry a top-down approach with a bottom-up approach by practising techniques and implementing tools that help each man rewire their nervous system, hone their expression, release disintegrated shame, and build up their frame solidly.

The students have reported tremendous shifts! It's been remarkable and deeply moving to witness.

From making breakthroughs in feeling anxious, disembodied and disconnected, to understanding how important authority (ex. frame and magnetism) is in meeting interdependent needs.

Crippled marriages deprived of respect and intimacy due to inverted gender dynamics, have been revived.

Men who struggled to navigate women, especially in our dysfunctional environment that misguide many, now understand how to relate to women, as men.

Some have even gotten married as a result.

Bonds of brotherhood have deepened, by understanding how to effectively cooperate, with integrity, and follow others who are more competent in any given area, without ego.

Others have made serious shifts in addiction-recovery. Despite developing these addictions through disorderly early childhood environments, brothers have witnessed their capacity to regenerate.

By harnessing the principles of pain and pleasure, and understanding jalaali and jamaali energy, they're realizing how deeply their nervous systems can be healed.

Experiencing more of the world with deeper connection to a wider range of feeling and uninhibited expression, is necessary for relationships to thrive.

Letting go of layers of harmful conditioning, is as important as learning proper form.

Our journeys progress, when we finally understand that. It's been an honour and a pleasure to see this understanding develop in these gentlemen.

If you're interested in a free consultation, you can book one with me.

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: MANHOOD BELIEVERS' TRIBE CONFERENCE

After years of online and offline discourse within our communities, on topics related to gender theory and practice, relationships, and ideological controversies that have challenged many -- i3 Institute is teaming together with international speakers, scholars, and/or grass-roots activists to address boys' and mens' issues. These issues have gone without proper framing or treatment for too long, and tremendous suffering and social dysfunctions have festered in the vacuum that exists as a result. By and large, those who have been filling this vacuum, promote imbalanced or outright fallacious takes.

My topic will be centered around an engaging workshop that dives into proper framing and modelling of manhood and masculinity, in light of what we know of the Deen legally, what we know about the world empirically, and what we can infer from these. I'll be examining how masculinities have been constructed traditionally, and then deconstructed and reconstructed in the modern and postmodern contexts, and what Muslim boys and men need to focus on in order to maximize their potency as functional men across social contexts.

Registration link and event description: https://www.eventbrite.ca/e/manhood-believers-tribe-tickets-143411131555