FearIsNotLove

Neglect, violence and abuse are life-altering, terrorizing behaviours. They are never ‘okay’. No matter what the ‘past history’ or ‘what you did.’

We call attention to the behaviours that lead partners and family members to not feel safe to be who they are, to feel afraid to speak their minds, and to feel terrified in their own homes. This can happen to anyone - regardless of how strong, intelli

gent, capable, educated, resilient or successful they are. Our goal is to help people to have violence-free lives, to live without fear, and get to the ultimate outcome - love. It’s what we all want and need. Please come to us for help and support if you’re afraid, or if others are afraid of you. Every human has the right to feel safe, respected, supported and loved. FearIsNotLove is:

⚫ A call to action
⚫ A value statement
⚫ Something we believe people are willing to stand up for.
⚫ And a standard that everyone, especially young people, can use to assess the health of their close relationships. It’s time to change the conversation. Now, many more people impacted by neglect, violence and abuse will recognize that they can find help here. It’s time to start new conversations, open up fresh possibilities, and tackle the unfair assumptions, embarrassment and shame that have been attached to domestic violence and abuse for too long. FearIsNotLove is about more than just our agency alone. We work alongside strong, capable partners. Our collective impact is much greater than we can hope to achieve by ourselves. We have evolved from our beginnings as Calgary Women’s Emergency Shelter, and we are catalyzing a movement for social change. At FearIsNotLove, we welcome everyone to join us on this bold path forward to open up new possibilities and new conversations in Calgary and area. As innovative and responsive leaders, we continue to evolve based on the latest research and evidence to meet the needs of our ever-changing community. We remain grounded in the same foundations you have come to know and love. Yes, the Calgary Women’s Emergency Shelter is a core program and an integral part of what we offer. We believe people who use abuse can change

Domestic violence and abuse are behaviours. And we believe that people’s behaviours can change, given the right motivation, resources, support and understanding. That’s why we also support people who are concerned they may have hurt someone, or are struggling with anger issues. Recently, our community members captured who we really are. Thank you.

⚫ Trusted Confidants. Whether you come to us looking for answers, safety or support we’re always here for you. We’re like the best friend you never knew you had. A trusted confidant who ‘gets it.’ You won’t find judgment here. We understand what you’re going through. We’re experts in our field with experience and connections that will make things easier for you.

⚫ Relentless. We are strong, courageous and resilient, often taking on a leadership role in the community. Our work is grounded in proven research and evidence. We work strategically and collaboratively with our brilliant partners who inspire and strengthen us.

⚫ Ingenious. We are constantly working to solve what can sometimes seems ‘unsolvable.’ Innovating is the only way forward. We continue finding success by pulling together the latest research, experts, evidence and insights. Creating better, wiser, stronger systems to support people experiencing domestic violence and abuse.

⚫ Empowering. We welcome all who are on this journey with us. Happily sharing our knowledge, resources and experience. Ego has no place here. We know the future and our communities will be safer and brighter if we continue to work together to inform and empower everyone. Especially those who didn’t know they would need us.

07/17/2026

THANK YOU! 💜

A heartfelt thank you to Justin Havre Real Estate Team for their thoughtful donation of hygiene items for boys and teen boys staying at our Calgary Women’s Emergency Shelter.

When families come to our Emergency Shelter, children and youth of all ages arrive with their mom, often with very few belongings. Hygiene items for boys and teens are among the items we need most but they are sometimes easy to overlook. Donations like these help ensure every child and youth has access to the essentials they need while they begin to heal and rebuild.

Community support makes this possible. Every donation helps us provide compassionate, life-changing programs to the families who turn to us for safety and hope.

💌 To learn more about our work, and ways you can support, visit FearIsNotLove.ca.

07/16/2026

FearIsNotLove provides life-saving resources to individuals and families impacted by domestic violence and abuse 💜

Our Safety Planning Toolkit is a free online resource to support individuals impacted by domestic violence and abuse. It offers accessible information and interactive tools to help navigate concerns related to safety and well-being. The toolkit provides practical strategies and helps connect individuals with available supports when they need it most.

A safety plan is a personalized tool created with each individual’s needs, experiences, and priorities in mind. Every plan is unique and reflects each person’s circumstances, helping to identify supports and steps that can help reduce risk.

Thank you to the Calgary Foundation for their generous support in making this critical resource available to our community.

🌐 Learn more about creating a safety plan and access our Safety Planning Toolkit at FearIsNotLove.ca/resources.

💌 If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, contact our free 24-hour Connect Domestic Violence & Abuse Helpline at (403) 234-SAFE (7233) or email [email protected] for judgement-free support.

07/15/2026

At FearIsNotLove, we believe love should never hurt. We’re here to create safety, healing, and hope for anyone impacted by abuse through compassionate, accessible services and life-changing conversations.

We’re here for anyone affected by domestic violence and abuse, no matter who you are, how you identify, where you come from, or who you love. Whether you’re experiencing abuse, worried you may be hurting someone and want to change, or supporting a loved one who’s impacted, you’re not alone. We’re here to help.

Fear IS NOT Love. Fear has no place in healthy relationships.

Every human has the right to feel safe, respected, supported, and loved 💜

💌 If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, or is using abuse and wants to change, please contact us.

💜 Connect Domestic Violence & Abuse Helpline:
☎️ Call: (403) 234-SAFE (7233)
📞 Toll-free: 1(866) 606-SAFE (7233)
📧 Email: [email protected]
📱 Online Chat: Available MON – FRI @ 8:00AM – 10:00PM (MST) on FearIsNotLove.ca
🚨 If you are in danger, and in need of immediate assistance please call 911

07/13/2026

💡 DID YOU KNOW? ⚠️

“In Canada, about one woman is killed by an intimate partner every 4–5 days.”
— (Statistics Canada, 2025)

Domestic violence and abuse happen far too often in Canada, including here in our community. It is not a private matter— it is a public safety and community issue that affects the health, safety, and well-being of individuals, families, workplaces, and neighbourhoods.

Ending domestic violence takes all of us. By learning more about this critical issue, starting conversations, and supporting those impacted by abuse, we can help create communities where everyone feels safe and respected.

Every human has the right to feel safe, respected, supported, and loved 💜

If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, or if you are using abuse and want to change, we’re here to help.

💌 Learn more at FearIsNotLove.ca

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+18666067233

Website

http://fearisnotlove.ca/

Address

500-1509 Centre Street S
Calgary, AB
T2G2E6

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