Life Coaching.

3. Words and actions become encoded within us as we are socialized from birth. As we learn a new word or experience a new action/situation, we learn what it means to us and we learn a pattern of response/behaviour/action at the body and mind and soul level.
Changing the words we use is the basis of most (if not all) personal change. The alternative is to learn a new meaning and teach our body to re-act differently Both alternatives take great effort, although learning a new meaning (ie. changing the way our body mind soul (BMS) encoding) is VERY differcult.
As we choose to use words that have a different effect on us, we raise a different energy, reaction and application for us; thus allowing us to change our life direction.
Re-defining words is not just a verbal exercise. Every word has an energenetic effect on us. Like a line in the sand. The deeper the effect on us (the stronger the hold on this old definition) , the deeper the line. This means the harder it is to jump out of this groove and re-learn a new groove. Don't do this alone, because without definition, what are we. So the transition phase, between grooves is a VERY tenuous place to be and NOT a place to stay for long.
Both methods of change provide great opportunities to experience life in a different manner, so choose your changes wisely.

A Poem by Mattie Stepanek (1990 to 2004 (muscular dystrophy) ; at the age of 11 :-
Don't believe the Christmas trees!
Everything is so much more beautiful
And wonderful, and glorius
Than anything we can imagine
Or compare, or create,
Especially the Light, and the Angels!
The Light is so many things ...
A window.
A tunnel.
A sunset at the edge
Of a polished pier.
And the Angels ...
The Angels are more than males and females with wings.
They glow with Light
Of Every-colour!
One colour at a time,
Or all at once, of none at all.
But there is no darkness.
There is no darkness in Heaven.
And there is no death.
Even though we must die to enter,
As we face the Light and the Angels,
We are beyond any type of death.
Don't believe the Christmas trees!
Heaven is beyond human description.
Believe in the Spirit behind the trees!
Believe in the Life related to the decorations.
Believe in the Word leading us to our Future.
And always,
And always, and always,
Believe in the Light, and the Angels!

- from "Psychic Children" by Sylvia Browne.