Em Elevates

Think back to when you were young. Were you taught how to clean? Or simply just told to do so?

Teaching independence in my children is a priority for me. One way you can start this, as early as possible, is by teaching them to take care of their own surroundings. And expecting it.

But they need to be set up for success. These are 4 ways I do that.

1. Dedicated display areas: this negates any issue of piling items on flat surfaces. If children have an area that they can keep and show off their treasures, they will use it.

2. Easy-care bedding and furniture: is king for teaching a child how to independently make their bed. as far as the other furniture goes, I like to keep it small, as to hold necessities, and cheap. I don’t have to worry about how my kids care for thrifted and marketplace furniture.

3. Their level: Make sure all of these things mentioned above are at your child’s physical and developmentally appropriate levels.

4. Lower expectations: i’m not saying to get rid of them, but your kids are not you. They will do things their own way. They will need help. As long as our home boundaries are kept, (50% closet and flat surface rule… nothing on the floor… etc.) mom is happy!

“The secret to your future is hidden in your daily routine.”

What are your favorite “opening shift” tasks that make your evenings go smoother?

It’s an art 🧼

She’s back✨ The summer wardrobes are out of storage! Winter only outfits / pajamas / holiday clothing are tucked away. I use this pile system for myself and my kids with every season. Like I always say, watch the stores for my autobiography titled “Piles and Baskets” someday 🤓

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