Amanda Blair
21/12/2022
When we see expanders (those who have what you want or embody how you to be) we might think they have it all figured out. I’ve heard clients say,”They must have something I don’t!”
Nope! I spoke about this a little in the live call with the coaches last week and wanted to bring the convo here too. Everyone experiences feelings of doubt, insecurity, heartbreak, rejection, etc. Even your expander. There isn’t a point you’ll get up in your where you won’t feel these things.
You can work towards being able to feel feelings and not letting them derail you because you’ve taken the time to unblock the limiting beliefs and lies running around in your subconscious.
No one is better than you. No one is inherently more capable than you. If you see someone who is further along than you are right now, they have stood where you were and felt, in their own way, similar to how you feel. Look back 2-5 years ago. Where were you? What have you learned? What feels easier now that didn’t back then? Has anything integrated? Shifted? Trust your process and your growth.
Most of all remember this: you are not broken. We are not fixing you through this work. This work is simply showing you who you have and always will be: a whole, integrated, being with the maximum amount of worth. You got this!
If you’re struggling with any of the above, I look forward to connecting over a session! Don’t forget our holiday coaching sale is done on 12/26! Get $100 off with code: HOLIDAY100, use as many times as you want!