Life By Default

Wanted Without Possession

I wrote this as my Saturday morning thought…. I do not measure love by titles.Not by boyfriend, not by husband, not by anything that asks to be named before it is understood. There is something rare about being chosen by someone who simply comes toward you because they want to, because the pull is real, because the care is deliberate. A connection that is deeply mutual, fiercely private, and untouched by the noise of expectation. To love each other fully, to remain sovereign in your own lives, and still return to one another by desire rather than obligation…...

Wanted Without Possession I wrote this as my Saturday morning thought…. I do not measure love by titles.Not by boyfriend, not by husband, not by anything that asks to be named before it is understood. There is something rar…

What is easy, Isn’t always right…

S*x is easy. A quiet truth most people don’t bother to argue with. Two people can meet across a bar, trade a glance that feels like permission, or match on a screen, exchange just enough words to create momentum, and within hours end up horizontal. Bodies moving in rhythm, familiarity borrowed from somewhere else, something that looks like connection but rarely asks for it. It’s accessible. Immediate. It requires very little beyond timing and willingness. Ease, however, has never been the same thing as depth. What often happens in those moments is not intimacy, it’s proximity....

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