Paws and Reflect Dog Training

Instead of teaching your puppy STAY, try this instead.

STAY is already implied. I don’t teach it and I don’t ask my clients to either.

Here’s why. Under a one command system, if I tell my dog down, that means stay in that position until I release you. One word. One expectation. No confusion.

The moment you start repeating “staaaay, staaaay, staaaay” you’re teaching your dog that the command doesn’t actually mean anything until you’ve said it three times. Dogs are excellent readers of patterns and they will learn whatever pattern you create, good or bad.

Less is more when communicating with your dog.

Next time you’re working on this, say your command once. (Sit, down, place etc). Then say nothing. Step away. If they hold it, reward them. If they break, reset and try again. No extra words. No begging. No repeating yourself.

Your dog doesn’t need more commands. They need more clarity.

Don’t teach stay. Stay is already implied.

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I Don’t Care What Anyone Says. Correcting Your Dog Saves Your Dog’s Life.

This is Simba. A 6 month old Golden Doodle Puppy. Happy go lucky, loves everyone, wants to greet every dog, jumps on people, and eats anything off the floor. Normal puppy stuff, but normal puppy stuff can become dangerous and even lethal.

Here’s what people get wrong about corrections. They think it means being harsh or unfair. It doesn’t. It means creating clarity.

In this video I’m showing Simba and his owners what no means and what happens next. If he listens, he gets rewarded. If he ignores me after I give the command, there is a leash pop aka the correction. That’s fair because I already communicated what I’m asking.

The pattern is simple. No means don’t interact with it, don’t go to it, don’t eat that. Make the right choice and you get rewarded.

Simba catches on quickly and starts choosing the reward more often. That means I barely have to correct him at all, and that’s the goal.

The truth is, I don’t want to correct my dog. It’s never the goal. But dogs need clarity so they understand what is right and wrong. Otherwise they can eat something dangerous, run into the street, approach the wrong person, or put themselves in a bad situation.

The real test of training is balance. If you’re correcting more than rewarding, something needs to change. But if you’re rewarding more than correcting, you’re building a healthy, fair relationship where your dog understands you and respects you.

Reward more than you correct. That’s the balance.

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Was this a fair correction or should I have let the puppy keep harassing the older dog?

This is Canelo, my 9 month old Shiba Pitbull mix day train client. Energetic, friendly, and still learning where the social boundaries are. The dog on the receiving end of his energy is Boox, an 8 year old American Staffordshire Terrier just trying to p*e in peace.

Canelo got too close. Invaded Boox’s space. I said no. He didn’t listen. So I leash popped him and he yelped.

Here’s my take.

Dogs correct each other all the time and it is always physical. That’s their language. That’s how they’ve communicated since before we ever put leashes on them.

Boox is a very submissive dog. He wasn’t going to advocate for himself. He kept looking to me because he needed me to do it for him. He was showing every stress and avoidance signal in the book and Canelo wasn’t reading any of it. If I let that persist, Canelo learns that pushing works and boundary testing has no consequence. That’s a dangerous lesson for a 9 month old to carry into every dog interaction for the rest of his life.

Had this been a more confident dog it ends one of two ways. Canelo gets corrected hard and walks away fearful. Or he gets the exact same message I gave him, just without the choice of who delivers it. Either way the boundary gets set. I just got to choose how.

A leash pop from me is clarity. A correction from a fed up dog is potential trauma or a bad habit reinforced. It’s not abuse. It’s communication.

The proof is in what happened after. They shook it off, walked together, and Canelo never tested that boundary again. Fast, clear, and forgotten.

Knowing when to step in is the skill.

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