Thriving Together

When an abuser regularly denies something they had said or done, they cause you to question your own recollection of events and worse make you believe that your emotions are invalid. Your feelings are 100% valid, understand abuse so that you can protect yourself against it 💜

Abusers will intentionally create problems, just so they can solve them and appear helpful. This is a manipulation tactic they use to gain more power in the relationship

When the abuser will typically redirect blame for household and/or relationship troubles onto one of their own children in order to remove the responsibility from themselves