pleasureroots

I know what you’re thinking…
What a beautiful place to do yoga - how calm, warm and peaceful 😌

And yes, when I took this picture I had every intention of doing yoga in a calm and peaceful way
But that’s not what happened…🤨

Instead, I spent a few minutes in child’s pose crying, then stared into the fire mesmerized for who knows how long, then grabbed a pen and paper and began to write ✍🏽

My writing brought more tears to the surface and although I wrote furiously, I have no idea why I was crying 😭

Anyone ever experience that? Crying and you don’t know why?

I’m here to tell you that you’re not the only one and it doesn’t mean your broken

Crying has been a part of my self-expression since I can remember - I cry when I’m…
Sad😢
Happy🥲
Furious🤬
Frustrated 😫
Uncertain 🥺
In pain 🤕
Overjoyed 😭😅
Org@sming 🤤

ALL THE TIME!

And there is nothing broken inside of me
There is nothing broken inside of you
We are cut from the same cloth
A cloth that blankets the world in feeling
The feelings that everyone else cannot feel

So if you cry for no reason, know that there is nothing wrong with you and you are not alone💕

If you go through bouts of energetic shifts and you feel that lump in your throat or that knot in your belly, then I encourage to please…

Let it go

Whatever you’re feeling - whether it’s your own sorrow, the weight of the world, the impact of the hurricane, the pain of war, or nothing at all…

It’s okay

Just let it go 🥹

Let’s cure the world 🤘🏽

Phase IV: turning my office in a Pleasure Space

For those that have been following along, you know how much I adore plants and vines and everything nature. 🍃🌼

In my last living space, my bedroom ended up being my pleasure space. I lived alone and it totally worked for me.

But now that I’m cohabiting with another, we need to make decisions together about our bedroom and other shared spaces. And the vines….my partner wasn’t super into. 😋

But it wasn’t an issue because we each have our own rooms now and we can decorate them however we want.

✨✨RELATIONSHIP TIP: Each of you have your own rooms so you can get some time away from one another and spend time with yourself. It’s SUPER helpful✨✨

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As I carefully and tediously move furniture around, staple vines into my ceiling and place moss on the bookshelves, I am reminded of my own Root Into Pleasure Immersion that I’ve held in this Facebook group twice this past year.

The free immersion takes the women of the group through creating their unique and customized self-pleasure date and one of the days is ALL about CRAFTING YOUR PLEASURE SPACE. 💕

Every book, every ornament, every piece of fake moss…

It all has its place.

This room is not just going to be my place of work, but my place of pleasure. And it’s important that I feel absolutely at home, comfortable and relaxed in it 😌

And it takes time and energy to do this work.

The meticulous stapling of every single vine, has also reminded me of the healing journey I’ve been on for the past several years. The journey that has brought me to all of you 🥰

Throughout this process, many things have not gone the way I thought they would...

👉🏽I’ve ran out of staples
👉🏽My arms have gotten tired
👉🏽I’ve found myself stapling in a pattern that ends up leaving open spaces and I’ve got to back thru them

All of these...obstacles, remind me of the ones I’ve faced in my healing journey of becoming sexually liberated.

Continued in comments 👇🏽