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To create well-rounded depictions of each type, I interviewed individuals of every subtype. You’ll find many of their stories throughout the book! My favorite way to learn the Enneagram is from the types themselves. Sure, some stereotypes hold true, but there’s so much more nuance within each of us. Over the years, I’ve learned so much from all of you!

What do you wish others knew about your type?

The patterns in this post are just a few I frequently see for the Heart types. If you’re looking for ways to address these patterns (especially if your old ways aren’t working!) be sure to grab my new book, Enneagram in Real Life. You can find the hardcover, ebook, or audiobook wherever books are sold!

Stay tuned for the Mind Types (5, 6, & 7)!

Gender is a factor for all types, but I especially see point 2 (don’t let issues fester) with women who are Eights. So many of these women hear they are intimidating or unapproachable, and that can feel alienating when they deeply care and never intend to intimidate their loved ones.

If you’re an Eight, what would you add to these lists?

In my upcoming book, Enneagram in Real Life, you’ll find a full section on communication and relationships, featuring even more ways to relate with Eights!

Sixes are often waiting for the other shoe to drop, which leaves them feeling unsettled, especially when good things are happening to them. When Sixes accept the good, they are drawing upon faith and courage, instead of believing their fear. (By the way, many of us do this! This is not a Six-only trait, but it is very common among Sixes.)

If you’re a Six, what would you add to these lists?

In my upcoming book, Enneagram in Real Life, you’ll find a full section on communication and relationships, featuring even more ways to relate with Sixes!