Featured in The Guardian, Chicago Tribune, the Chicago Reader, on WBEZ, WTTW, FoxSoul, and on international television and radio, Nikki Patin has been writing, performing, educating, and advocating for over 25 years. As a q***r, non-binary Black femme who is the single parent to a child with autism, Patin has developed and facilitated workshops, spoken on panels, delivered keynotes, and addressed
audiences around the world. Her expertise on the historic and current impact of racism, sexual harm, homophobia, ableism, mass incarceration, fatphobia and sizeism has resulted in a unique methodology of writing and performance for healing trauma and shifting culture. Patin has performed, taught and spoken at the University of Chicago, Northwestern University, Cook County Jail, Rikers Island prison, University of Michigan, University of Wisconsin-Madison, EXPO Chicago, Black Artists Retreat, Brooklyn Museum, and the National Black Theater in Harlem and many other spaces throughout the U.S., New Zealand, and Australia. At the Dunedin Fringe Festival, in Dunedin, New Zealand, she was nominated for a Best Performer Award. She was also highlighted in many media outlets throughout New Zealand and Melbourne, Australia, including NO. Magazine, TV3, Radio NZ, and 24/7 Girl Magazine. A survivor of both sexual and domestic violence, Patin navigates complex PTSD and uses multiple creative practices as strategies for healing and revolution. In 2014, Patin addressed the United Nations in Geneva, Switzerland on the historic and current impact of sexual harm on Black girl and women in the U.S. Nikki Patin holds an MFA in Creative Nonfiction from the University of Southern Maine, with pieces published by WBEZ, Move to End Violence, the Chicago Reader, Torch Literary Arts, on Public Newsroom, courtesy of City Bureau, and in the anthology, Carving Out Rights from the Prison Industrial Complex. She is the founder of Surviving the Mic, a survivor-led collective that curates performances and workshops for writers and performers who are also survivors of sexual harm. Patin’s debut memoir, Working on Me, is forthcoming from Vine Leaves Press in April 2024. In addition to Patin’s written and performance work, Patin is also a visual artist. In 2019, Patin was the recipient of the Jackman Goldwasser Residency at Hyde Park Arts Center, where she began developing an ongoing practice of healing, visual meditations, entitled 10,000 Labyrinths. That practice has become The Revolution Begins Within, a line of products designed to heal herself and others, that support how to get brave and stay lifted. An accomplished singer/songwriter, Patin has written, produced, and released an EP, Everything’s Just Fine, and a full-length album, Bedroom Empire, on her own label, Phat Grrrl Revolution Records. She has performed as a lead vocalist with several bands, in musical genres ranging from jazz to hip-hop, hard rock to EDM. In 2018, Patin was a recipient of the 3Arts Make A Wave Award in Music. Patin is an experienced non-profit executive who has sat on multiple funding panels and several boards, with expertise in community engagement, arts program curation and management, youth and community development, marketing, branding, design, and product development. She has worked and collaborated with the Voices and Faces Project, the University of Chicago, After School Matters, Center on Halsted, Black S*x Matters, Beastwomen, the Chicago Reader, the Literati, and many other organizations, artists, publications, and communities. Patin lives in Lansing, IL, a south suburb of Chicago, with her son, Tobias Langston.
11/12/2025
Whew! What a month! Jeff’s been settling in nicely and we’ve reconfigured and reorganized, though that’ll be happening for a minute.
For the first time since I’ve lived in a house, I didn’t have to shovel snow and my car was nicely warmed up before I drove to work yesterday morning.
And where exactly am I working?
For the first time in my life, I’m not making that public knowledge, though I suspect it may filter out over the next few weeks.
Also, I haven’t touched a garbage bag in weeks and am currently feasting on grilled steak while delighting in the beauty of a gorgeous bouquet of flowers that my family got me to congratulate me on the next steps in my journey.
Who knew that having my child’s other parent actively involved and present would have such amazing outcomes for our collective mental health?
Actually, we knew, which is why we decided to try this audacious plan for our family.
This first month has been intense but also delightful and filled with a lot of laughter, big feelings, hard conversations, a metric ton of grace and an even greater amount of love.