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The only thing I could not offer my brides were suggestions for where they could find someone to marry them in venues outside the church. I loved my customers and tried to make their arrangement as easy as I could. There were a few, but none close to the venues they wanted. My customers became friends and my business gave me a purpose. Unfortunately, I was in an accident and was no longer physical
IF YOU HAVE A TEENAGE DAUGHTER IN A ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP, PAY ATTENTION.
-She should not have a “life 360” circle with him. He shouldn’t be tracking her at all.
-He shouldn’t have to be at all her events, practices, family outings. Or she shouldn’t be
Missing outings if he cannot attend.
-she should have regular time to herself and with her friends.
-watch to see if she stops wearing makeup, stops taking care of herself, only wears baggy clothes. These are signs of control.
-watch to see if she gets nervous about not being able to call him back, not being home when she “told him” she would, or being afraid to cancel plans with him.
-be mindful of dialogue that sounds like you’re being pitted against him or that paints him in a victim role despite attempts to be welcoming or understanding
-look for cycles of Gifts being given after large arguments
-ask for evidence of equality: are standards applied evenly? Are boundaries respected on both sides? Can both sides be autonomous?
-from time to time read their exchanges. To be sure that respect is present.
-make sure you tell her everyday how much she matters and emphasize that anyone who loves her will handle her with care.
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