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02/17/2026
The plant folx I live with have given me rich opportunities to root my practice of noticing into relationships. Everything in the universe is in relationship to all else. Noticing reverently serves that fundamental truth. Noticing the droop of a stem or the dryness of a leaf deepens my knowledge of care they need, love they can receive, relationship that they desire. Plants have guided me to deep, generative noticing where any communication binary collapses into the oneness of the universe. Whether I notice them is a reliable indicator of whether my pace is slow enough to notice anything, including my Self. Who connects the practice of noticing to relationship for you?
01/14/2026
This post does not explain the harm that unquestioned assumptions can allow. There are stories from all over that do.
The language feels limiting, so it must have time to evolve
and
this concept offers seeds of by occupying space beyond my mind. My hope is those seeds take root, given the amount of cultivated assumptions I come across in my role as a mediator. So even with the unmatured language I’m sharing this concept now because if not now, when?
10/16/2025
A year deeper 🎉 again I’m celebrating the pleasure of watching clouds part in conversation!
What work as a facilitator of conflict resolution looks like right now:
🧡 prepping to teach a Fall 2025 cohort of Authentic Consent™ Facilitators,
🧡 getting the word out about workshops like Breathing into Consent: Practicing the Sacred Pause,
🧡 holding space at monthly TAnntra Talks like Negotiating Pleasure and Back to Boundaries,
🧡 and scheduling Mediation Preparation coaching and Tantra-Informed Mediation™ sessions.
Curious? The information session on Sunday, October 19th is a great time for us to chat!
**ra
10/08/2025
Do you believe in choice?
Do you recognize choice?
Do you claim choice as yours?
Conditions where authentic choice is possible are created at a social level beyond an individual, though not just there alone. The present is a co-creation.
Y’all need me to believe in, recognize and claim choice. I need y’all to call in choice just the same.
For wellbeing in all ways we exist 👏🏾
09/24/2025
What is your conflict style?
What is your relationship with giving?
What is your relationship with receiving?
Does your perspective on conflict styles correlate with your perspective on receiving and giving?
Could whether conflict styles feel fixed or mutable correlate with whether the give-receive dynamic feels fixed or mutable?
Martin et al.’s The Art of Receiving and Giving informing Thomas-Kilmann’s conflict model 🧡
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