Tuza Tribe

𝐈 𝐝𝐨𝐧'𝐭 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐨𝐟 '𝐞𝐧𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡 𝐛𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐫𝐨𝐨𝐦' 𝐥𝐨𝐨𝐤𝐬 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞.

For some mums it's not having to do the mental maths every time an unexpected bill arrives. For others it's being able to say yes to a school excursion without flinching. For some it's just the option to slow down at work without the whole family feeling it.

Mine was wanting to be available. To not feel like every moment with my son was borrowed from something else I was supposed to be doing.

I'm not there yet — fully, completely there. But I'm closer than I was. And the distance between where I was and where I am now is mostly explained by one decision: to quietly start building something, even when I wasn't sure it would work.

I'm still figuring it out. Some weeks are better than others. But I can feel the direction changing, and that matters.

If you've been reading along this week and something has been sitting with you — that small voice asking 'what if there was another way?' — maybe trust it enough to go and find out.

The webinar I keep mentioning is free and explains exactly what I'm doing and how the system works. No sales pressure on the other side. Just information you can take away and sit with.

Link is in the comments. Come and have a look. 💛

(And if you've been sick this week like us — I hope you're on the mend. Rest well.)

Come to the free webinar first. Let's see if that still feels true afterwards. No commitment. Just information.

𝐈 𝐥𝐞𝐟𝐭 𝐚 𝐰𝐞𝐥𝐥-𝐩𝐚𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐠𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐧𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐣𝐨𝐛 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐯𝐚𝐢𝐥𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐦𝐲 𝐟𝐚𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐲. 𝐈 𝐝𝐨𝐧'𝐭 𝐫𝐞𝐠𝐫𝐞𝐭 𝐢𝐭. 𝐁𝐮𝐭 𝐈'𝐝 𝐛𝐞 𝐥𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐟 𝐈 𝐬𝐚𝐢𝐝 𝐢𝐭 𝐝𝐢𝐝𝐧'𝐭 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐢𝐭𝐬 𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐨𝐟 𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐮𝐫𝐞.

When our son arrived — after a journey that taught me not to take a single moment for granted — everything reordered itself. Work that had once felt important started to feel like it was crowding out what actually mattered.

So I stepped back. Went part-time. Chose family time over the pay cheque. And I'd make that call again.

But reduced income with unchanged bills is a particular kind of stress. You're doing the right thing for your family and still feeling the squeeze. I didn't want to just tolerate that indefinitely.

Tuza Tribe started as me quietly asking: is there a way to build something meaningful that works around my family, not the other way around? That doesn't ask me to choose my son over my work every single week?

I found training. Mentorship. A community of people figuring it out too. And a system that actually fits into the pockets of time I have — school runs, nap times, evenings.

It's not finished. It's not perfect. But it's mine, and it's growing, and it's the most aligned thing I've built.

Faith, family, freedom. That's what this is about for me.

If any of that resonates — I've got a free webinar that explains what I'm actually doing and how it works. Come have a look with no obligation. The link's in the comments. 💛

Come take a look.

There's a free webinar that explains how it all works, from the beginning. No qualifications needed to have a look.

𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐰𝐞𝐞𝐤, 𝐦𝐲 𝐰𝐡𝐨𝐥𝐞 𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐞𝐡𝐨𝐥𝐝 𝐡𝐚𝐬 𝐛𝐞𝐞𝐧 𝐬𝐢𝐜𝐤. 𝐀𝐧𝐝 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐟𝐢𝐫𝐬𝐭 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐚 𝐥𝐨𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞, 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐧𝐞𝐲 𝐬𝐢𝐝𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐢𝐭 𝐝𝐢𝐝𝐧'𝐭 𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐝 𝐦𝐞 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐨 𝐚 𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐚𝐥.

This week, my whole household has been sick. My husband, my son, and me — all of us, flat out.

If you know anything about how employment works, you'll know that once sick leave runs out, those missed days don't get paid. My husband is in exactly that position right now.

A year ago — even six months ago — that would have sent me into a full stress spiral. The 'how are we going to cover this?' conversation. The mental arithmetic. The quietly panicking while trying to appear fine for my son.

But this week? We've both been able to just... rest. To actually focus on getting well, and on being present with our boy while he's not feeling his best.

Not because everything is figured out. It's still very much a work in progress. But because we've been quietly building other income streams alongside our jobs — and right now, that work is doing what we hoped it would.

I'm not sharing this to sound like we've arrived somewhere. We haven't. I'm sharing it because I remember what it felt like to have zero buffer. And I know so many families are right there.

If you've ever thought about building something on the side — not to get rich quick, but just to breathe a little easier — I'd love for you to have a look at what I'm learning and building. There's a free webinar that explains it far better than I can in a caption.

Link in comments if you're curious. No pressure at all. 💛

𝐁𝐞𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐜𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐬: 𝐈’𝐦 𝐛𝐮𝐢𝐥𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐧 𝐩𝐨𝐜𝐤𝐞𝐭𝐬.

I’m building it between life, school runs, meals, and the mental load. Sometimes it’s 20 minutes. Sometimes it’s a voice note. Sometimes it’s learning something new while dinner is cooking.

I’m not chasing hustle, I’m chasing a life where work fits around family. The goal is 𝙩𝙞𝙢𝙚 𝙛𝙧𝙚𝙚𝙙𝙤𝙢 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙢𝙮 𝙛𝙖𝙢𝙞𝙡𝙮.

What does “time freedom” actually look like for you?

If you ever want the breakdown of what I’m building, I can explain it simply or just answer questions.

𝙄’𝙫𝙚 𝙣𝙤𝙩𝙞𝙘𝙚𝙙 𝙨𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙖𝙗𝙤𝙪𝙩 𝙢𝙪𝙢𝙨...

(especially working mums and immigrant mums):
We don’t usually say “I’m scared to start.”

We say things that sound more practical…
“I don’t have time.”
“I don’t know enough.”
“I don’t want to annoy people online.”
“I’ve tried before and it didn’t work.”
“It’s probably too late for me anyway.”

But if we’re honest, a lot of those are myths we’ve absorbed — not facts.

Because the mums I know are some of the most capable people on earth.
They can run a household, keep humans alive, work a job, carry a mental load that never shuts off… and still show up for everyone else.

So it’s not that you can’t do something new.
It’s that you’re trying to start in a way that doesn’t fit your life, or you’re trying to start without a clear path, so it feels risky.

That’s why I’m big on anything step-by-step.
Not “hustle harder.” Not “post all day.”
Just clear steps you can follow in pockets of time, even on messy weeks.

So I’m curious — which myth has kept you stuck the longest?