Olem

My husband wants me to quit my job and be a full time house wife. I told him to be paying me salary every month,

and it must be a written agreement which he must sign, but he got angry!

Asking if I'm not the one that birth our children, that why should he pay me for carrying out my responsibility. I don't want to be financially incapacitated,

I don't want to be a liability, I don't want to quit my career, I don't also want to loose my marriage because my husband is telling me to choose between my job and our marriage.

I have a promising career, I work with MTN as one of their IT supports. There are a lot of "What Ifs" in my mind right now

He is giving me from now till October to decide!

How do I go about this situation?"