The Bimdol

People who say one of the reasons every woman should embrace polygyny is so they can help each other as co-wives are funny.
Find another excuse , please, which one is “so she can help you.”
If you want someone who will help your wife, get her a maid, it’s even cheaper
but telling women the reason you are marrying another is so they can help each other?

Like, do men even understand how stressful babysitting is?
So, first wife isn’t stressed enough that second wife will add her own children, giving her additional work to do?
And majority of the polygyny out there are civil; the co-wives are not friends and at the same time, they are not enemies which is best for some people and I think it’s unfair trying to force friendship between people like that.

Men are about to start forcing/ talking co-wives into babysitting each other’s children. It doesn’t work that way.
And to me, it’s like causing more problems for the wives.
This one will come home and say her child hit her head when she wasn’t around, na so another round of beef go take start.

Co-wives are not maids or Nannies for each other. They are both going to be tired from all the babysitting stuff, get a maid for each of your wives if you are so passionate about them getting help instead of trying to kill 6 birds with a stone.