Dorcas Witty Comic Reloaded

5 Dating Myths We Still Believe That Block Us from Attracting Real Love

01 — “If she really wants me, she’ll make the first move.”
Too many of us wait for a mind-reader.
Grown love requires grown communication.
Closed mouths don’t attract soulmates — they attract shoulda-coulda stories.

02 — “Chemistry is all that matters.”
🔥 Chemistry with the wrong woman still burns.
You need compatibility, capacity, and consistency.
Lust is loud. Alignment is quiet… but safe.

03 — “If she has her life together, she won’t hurt me.”
Success ≠ emotional availability.
A degree, a Tesla, and an Amex don’t mean she can pour into you.
Vet her HEART — not her resume.

04 — “Being independent means I don’t need anyone.”
You can be powerful and still crave partnership.
Wanting love doesn’t make you weak —
it makes you human.
Your softness is a flex, not a flaw.

05 — “There’s no good women left.”
There are AMAZING women out here —
but they swipe right on confidence… not exhaustion.
If you believe love is scarce,
you’ll only attract women who prove you right.

The Truth?

Love isn’t hiding.
It’s waiting for you to stop settling, stop shrinking, and stop assuming the worst.

When you show up like the blessing you are —
your blessing shows up too.

—witty💜

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