Abrazars Of Insight

Not every broken relationship begins with betrayal. Some begin with the values society quietly teaches.

A young woman needed help to pay her school fees. Another needed a job recommendation. Another just wanted someone to believe in her dream. Too often, the answer wasn't, "How can I help?" It became, "What will you give me in return?"

For years, some men turned kindness into a transaction and generosity into an opportunity for sexual favors. Slowly, a dangerous lesson spread: that a woman's body was the quickest currency to unlock doors.

Today, we complain that many relationships are built on material exchange instead of genuine love and respect. But before we blame the younger generation alone, we must ask ourselves: Who taught them that everything has a sexual price?

The truth is simple: whenever help is tied to exploitation, trust dies, values decline, and relationships become transactional.

Real men don't demand intimacy as payment for kindness. They protect dignity, inspire respect, and prove that integrity still exists.

If we want healthier relationships tomorrow, we must stop rewarding exploitation today.

Men we really need to apologize to this women because anything they are today we the men, enabled it and we need to apologize to them and then go back to our drawing boards to make things right from our upcoming children else the next generation will suffer more than we the present men are suffering in relationships today, because every woman is already going n@ked online and offline

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