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My Boyfriend Is Building a House… But Not for Me

My boyfriend of 6 years is building a house… but I just found out it’s not for us.
Story: I met Daniel in 2019 when I was still in school. We struggled together. I supported him when he had nothing. When he started his business, I was there.
Last year, he told me he bought land. I was so happy. I started imagining our future.
Two weeks ago, I saw building pictures on his phone. I was excited. I asked him, So when are we moving into our house?
He laughed and said, “Our house? Who told you it’s our house?”
He said the house is for him and the wife his parents will choose.
I reminded him we’ve dated for 6 years. He said I’m not “wife material” because I’m too independent.
Now I feel used. I wasted my youth on him.
Ending Engagement Line: Am I wrong for feeling betrayed?

What would you do if you were me?