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𝗨𝗝𝗨𝗠𝗕𝗘 𝗪𝗔 𝗟𝗘𝗢 !!! ✍

TAREHE YA LEO !!!
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Tarehe (Hijria) : 7.RAJAB.1445H
Tarehe (Miladia) : 19.JANUARI.2024

• 𝐈𝐋𝐋𝐈𝐂𝐈𝐓 𝐋𝐎𝐕𝐄 𝐑𝐄𝐋𝐀𝐓𝐈𝐎𝐍𝐒𝐇𝐈𝐏 𝐁𝐄𝐅𝐎𝐑𝐄 𝐌𝐀𝐑𝐑𝐈𝐀𝐆𝐄.

When people in our society are asked "arrange marriage or love marriage?" 90% of them reply with, "Obviously love marriage! How am I supposed to live with a person whom i don't even know about? So yeah, first we are going to make love, know each other very well then will think about marriage."

Woah! What an intellectual answer right? I even think that now, so many brothers and sisters might agree with the reply but wait. let's talk about "love before marriage" in islam.

There's no such thing like making "love relationship before marriage" in islam. There's no such thing like Boyfriend-Girlfriend thingy in islam. There's only husband-wife relation in islam. And i wanted remind you all that, obviously, everything that's forbidden in islam has a lot of wisdoms behind. Similarly, "love relationship before marriage" being forbidden in islam has wisdoms too.

One of the wisdom being love relationship between a man and a woman before marriage being forbidden is that the more you get to know a person, the more you become bored of that person, the interest and the love for that person decreases, she/he doesn't lighten up your heart anymore like the first time and what happens at the end is, HEART BREAKS.

You see, Allah is the most merciful and He is the knower of all things! He knows that your heart will be broken and you will be gradually damaged if you go and make love before marriage and so He has forbidden it. [check Qur-an chapter 4 : verse 25].

And also, most of you have already read or heard about love stories where married couples ending up where they used to love each other for more than 10+ years before marriage. Only very few make it till the end but trust me, If you go and check, you will find that people who have done arranged marriage are more happier than the ones who have done marriage under a illicit love relationship.

In conclusion, know that, halal is always Beautiful so be patient and wait for your turn, avoid the haram. If Allah wills. Also remember,

True love starts after Nikah and continue till Jannah because true love never dies.🖤🦋

Ali, alikuwa mtu wa kawaida tu, aliyezaliwa na kukulia huko Sydney, Australia. Alikuwa mchapakazi na alikuwa mfanyabiashara aliyefanikiwa kwa nguvu zake mwenyewe.

Aliishi maisha ya kufurahia mali zake kutokana na mafanikio yake. Kula matunda ya mali zake pamoja na marafiki na familia yake. Unaweza kusema Mwenyezi Mungu alimpa dunia hii Kisha akiwa na umri wa miaka 29 alipatwa na mtihani mkubwa. Ilikuwa wakati aligundulika kuwa na saratani (kansa) na kuwa ana miezi 7 tu ya kuishi.

Ali hakuwa na chaguo la kufanya akijua kwamba maisha yake ni mafupi sana, hakuweza kutimiza mipango yake, au kile alichofikiri alitaka kufanya wakati huo. Ilikuwa rahisi kuangukia katika kukata tamaa. Na hii ni kawaida sana wakati watu wanagundua kuwa wana saratani lakini kwake yeye mara moja akakumbatia ule ugonjwa k**a "zawadi" akaufanya ugonjwa k**a ni nafasi ya kuongeza zaidi nini maana halisi ya maisha kwa mwanadamu na thamani ya maisha.

Alifanya safari ambayo ilimpeleka hadi Afrika ambako alikutana na watu wa Togo. Hapa ndipo alipoamua kuanza. Kwa kutumia mali yake mwenyewe, alianza kwa kuwalisha na kuwapa misaada mayatima na wajane. Kuleta zana za kilimo na matrekta ili jamii iweze kulima. Alijenga visima vya maji ili wapate maji safi, msikiti wa kuswalia na shule ya watoto kujifunza na kucheza. Kupitia mitandao ya kijamii watu walianza kusikia kuhusu hadithi yake na walitaka kujiunga naye.

Alianzisha shirika la misaada ‘Muslims Around the World’, pia linajulikana k**a MATW. Aligundulika na saratani mwaka wa 2015 na alifariki tarehe 29 Mei 2018. Kiujumla alizadiwa Dunia na kisha na Akhera.