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I found myself walking into the office each morning with a heavy heart, dreading the tension that seemed to seep through every corner. Despite loving my job and feeling passionate about my work, the strained relationships with some of my colleagues cast a shadow over my enthusiasm. The once vibrant workplace now felt suffocated by unspoken frustrations and bottlenecks in communication.

It became clear to me that something needed to change. I couldn't continue tiptoeing around these issues, letting them fester and grow like weeds in an untended garden. So, I made a commitment to myself: I will initiate a positive conversation with a challenging colleague each week. This was not just about improving our working dynamic but also about nurturing understanding and empathy in our interactions.

With determination and open-heartedness, I embarked on this journey towards healing the rifts that had been weighing us down for far too long. By making an effort to reach out, listen, and communicate openly, step by step, I hoped to sow seeds of positivity that would eventually bloom into stronger connections

"Feeling stuck with goal setting? Why not give intention setting a try instead? Let's explore a gentler, more fulfilling way to manifest your dreams together!"

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What's one thing you wish you could change about your current situation, and what's holding you back?
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That feeling when you're craving change but feel stuck or stalled-out - it can be so frustrating, right? There's this vision for how you want your life to look and feel, but those obstacles just seem insurmountable some days. Whether it's transitioning careers, strengthening a relationship, or simply cultivating more balance, we all have areas where we yearn to level-up.
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So let's get real for a moment: What's one thing you desperately wish was different about your current circumstances? Don't censor yourself - give voice to that inner restlessness and hunger for something more. Once you can name it, you're one step closer to realising it.
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Now here's the cool part: Those roadblocks that loom so large? They're not dead-ends, but actually powerful opportunities for growth and transformation if you approach them with the right mindset. Because overcoming challenges and facing down our fears is how we stretch ourselves. It's how we re-write the narratives holding us back and tap into those reserves of courage we didn't even know we had.
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So rather than letting those obstacles gaslight you into complacency, could you commit to taking just one small, actionable step today towards that change you crave? It can be something as simple as researching job openings, scheduling a workout, or downloading a helpful app. Any little act of defiant self-nurturing in the face of those doubts and excuses is a win.
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Because you're deserving of a life that feels authentic and purposeful. You're deserving of shedding what's keeping you small and shining in your fullest expression. And bit-by-bit, those small steps start sn*******ng into radical transformation.
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Have compassion for how heavy those metaphorical backpacks of fears, limiting beliefs, and conditioning can feel as you're striving for change. But also get angry - righteous, lighted-up angry - at anything that keeps you from living as your highest self. Let that fire under your feet be the fuel propelling you forward, no matter how gradual the journey.
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You've got this. Every day's an opportunity to begin anew and realign with the woman you're aching to become. One courageous choice at a time.

A one word journal uses a single daily word to encapsulate essence and emotion.
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Some key things about one word journals:
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They encourage brevity and mindfulness - the writer must think carefully about choosing just the right word to encapsulate the day. This process can help people be more intentional.
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The single words are often like shorthand emotional notes or a one-word summary of a key event. For example, someone might write "happy" on a good day or "tired" after a long day at work.
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Looking back on the collection of words can provide a snapshot of the different experiences and emotions felt over time. It distils the journal down to its essence.
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The single word entries are quick and easy to do each day, making it a convenient journaling habit to maintain.
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It can be interesting to look back on patterns in the words over time or to flip through and notice shifts in tone or focus.
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The entries don't necessarily need to make logical sense; it's more about capturing a subjective impression or moment in time.
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Stressed
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However, you can also use a key question to help you explore your one word and your feelings.
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Question: What feelings does this word bring up for me, and why?
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Dear journal,
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Seeing the word "stressed" in my one word journal today makes me realise just how overwhelmed I'm feeling lately. As a young woman in my 20s juggling work, relationships, and personal goals, stress has become an unwelcome yet familiar friend.
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This word evokes feelings of anxiety, frustration, and being emotionally drained. I've just started a new job that's demanding a lot from me. I'm trying to learn the ropes while also meeting tight deadlines. My to-do list keeps growing, and it's left me feeling buried. No matter how much I try to keep up, I end up staying late and still feeling behind. The pressure to perform and prove myself is intense.
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In my personal life, I've been facing difficulties with my partner that leave me tense and preoccupied. We've been arguing more, struggling to communicate. My mind swirls with uncertainty about the relationship. All this has led to many sleepless nights and a constant pit in my stomach.
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I know I put a lot of pressure on myself, and I don't ask for help often enough. I've taken on too many responsibilities without good boundaries. It's left me exhausted and emotionally tapped out.
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Choosing "stressed" today reminds me that I need to take better care of myself. I can't keep operating in crisis mode or my health and relationships will suffer. This feeling is a sign that I need to prioritise self-care, reach out for support, and make changes so I can find more calm and balance. Though the pressures won't disappear overnight, reflecting on this gives me determination to start carving out ways to reduce stress and anxiety.
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I deserve peace.

Last November, I hosted a Journalling Together group session where a participant expressed their difficulty with journalling. I reassured them that there is no correct method for journalling and suggested a simple approach, such as keeping a one-word journal.
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My one word journal example today is Cold.
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However, the key about journalling for me is the reflection. You only need to ask yourself one question to reflect, so here are two example questions I use to reflect when I'm journalling.
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1. How did my chosen word come up in my day today?
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I chose this word because in the UK it has begun to get extremely cold and I think they are predicting snow on Wednesday. I’m not looking forward to the snow, but I work from home now so maybe it doesn’t matter as much any more.
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2. What feelings does this word bring up for me, and why?
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If I think about the cold just on it’s own, then I feel miserable, but when I compare it to being too hot, being cold makes me feel much happier. As long as I am dressed appropriately and wearing layers, can turn the heating up; sit under a duvet and watch TV; use an electric blanket; have lots of hot drinks, I can still work, feel cosy and be productive.
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But when it’s too hot I always feel as if I can’t cool down; I get heat rash; the AC stuffs up my nasals and there’s never anywhere to cool down. So in reality, I really like the cold when it's a normal working week, except when I get a cold but I unfortunately, I'll have to reserve really hot weather for holidays.
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In this example I haven't gone deep into feelings and that's fine. It's about getting started and finding your own rhythm.

Take the first step towards a more mindful and intentional life by embracing the simplicity of one-word journaling as a daily practice.

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As we start 2024, many of us feel the pull to make New Year's resolutions - goals to exercise more, eat healthier, etc. But what if instead we set meaningful intentions?

An intention focuses on our inner growth and character, not just external actions. So rather than resolving to go to the gym 5 days a week, what if we intend to build courage?

Courage is a quiet confidence from within. It's the willingness to be vulnerable, take risks, and face fears. Cultivating courage leads to a more authentic, fulfilled life.

For young working women, courage helps you speak up at meetings, ask for promotions, leave unhealthy jobs or relationships, and more fully step into your potential. It allows you to tune out self-doubt and take the kinds of chances that lead to growth.

So let's set the intention in 2024 to face challenges head-on. To lean into discomfort and honour your true voices. Your greatest breakthroughs lie just outside your comfort zones.

This year, may we all build the courage to be bold, take risks, and manifest the lives we truly desire. The new year offers a blank canvas - let's paint one filled with courage, purpose and meaningful change.