Rory Callaghan

A 7 year project is coming to end 🙂

I can't wait to share it with you. It's for the people you care about the most.

My friends and family close to me will know what it is. Ive probably chewed your ear off with passionate chats about the vision. It's a passion project that I have put my heart and soul into, all my time, my resources and money into. Many of your probably thought I was crazy 😅 ahah, that's ok. I questioned myself with the same thoughts. But, kept coming back to "what does the world need right now"... not how can I make money, or get external validation for its awesomeness. It was a massive flip from the head to the heart.

It might even bankrupt me, but if it's a living legacy that helps just one person. Then it's already worth it.

I've talked a lot about it along the way. But this last step is a "show me, don't tell me" step :) I hope it has a positive in your life when i share it all in its full expression 🤜🏻🤛🏻🚀

In the last few years, to strangers it may have looked like I was just surfing and enjoying being a being one the lost bali boys... avoiding responsibilities as I hop from one island to the next... but, there have been hours and days of late nights and Whiteboard sessions that you'll never see.

Big love legends and thanks for any support or belief that was poured into me along the way. It made all the difference.

Yew 🤙🤙🤙

If you didn't know.. yesterday was and this month is a tribute to mental health and su***de prevention.

During the pandemic, mental helath challenges due to isolation, Disconnection and stress (much of it financial)... has been testing us all. Testing our emotional and Concious ability to stay above the line as each Challenge, insecurity, trauma and shadow shows itself.

Like you may have been tested too. I've had a challenging year. I believe that vulnerability, honesty and transparency is a strength, not a weakness... like we have been conditioned to think.

Here are some things that I have come to understand deeply in the storms and on the other side.

1. FEAR is an illusion. It only takes 10 seconds of courage to change the narrative and direction of my life. If I run, avoid, suppress, distract and resist... it all persists... leaning here into fear is the path.

2. Radical responsibility - allow the shadows, pains, Past traumas and insecurities rise to the surface. Learn the lesson it watch these unconscious drivers impact my life in a downward spiral.

3. My biggest lesson was love. It was always there in my pocket. Giving it to myself was the most powerful shift. Then learning to unconditionally love and hold space for people in their own pain, trauma, mess, greatness, anger and even resentment is a powerful form@of love.

4. Character is all that matters : our words are like water. It's our patterns of behaviour that ultimately define who we are. Being able to hold that and be that in our depths is our truest character. It's only ever evident when pressure is applied. Anyone can be a good person in good times.

5. My golden mantra. Had been to do my beat to tear people in a way that I could only ever hope to be treated. This has been the most powerful lesson.

6. No one cares about what I say, they only care about the way I leave them feeling. Staying above the line in critical conversations has been a powerful challenge. The people closest to us will know how to find the gaps in our armour. Appreciating that as an opportunity to gain more resilience is meaningful.

7. Be your beat vibe and set boundaries/standards for what you accept

It has Me a a couple of years to tune into the backside barrels 🌊

100s of beatings... a s**t tonne of reef cuts, hold downs and sets on the head.

But.... it's all worth it for a couple of moments like this 😂🤙❤️