Myrite Rotstein Coaching

Our next circle is coming up soon and we will be celebrating and connecting and meeting each other wherever we are, just as we are.
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Summer Solstice in the Northern hemisphere is coming up and it’s the longest day of light, during this past year when so much darkness has come to light, when the heaviness of the world has left you feeling helpless, hopeless or in despair. We can forget that we’re not supposed to do this alone. This life, these hard things, even raising a child was meant to do with a whole village. But we have been more isolated than ever this year, and now with the vaccine there has been new hope and new openings. Literally we have been able to come out of our shelter, we have been able to socialize again, and while it can feel liberating and joyful it’s also ok if it’s hard and anxiety producing. Our nervous systems are just trying to adjust to a new normal of what is safe.
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These circles are meant to be connection points for you to come back to center. To feel your feet planted on the earth and ground no matter what is going on around you. To take care to replenish yourself before you pour your energy into everyone and everything else. To remember who you were before the world told you who you should be. To come just as you are. To share what’s on your heart if you feel moved or listen without trying to fix.
We build our immunity in community, if any of this resonates for you- join us in circle. You are welcome to bring a sister/friend as a gift just ask me when you register in the link in my bio, and I’ll send you the password for them.
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🌕This months circle is coming up on Wednesday, at 8pm EST🌕
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As usual there will be space be with whatever is coming up for you, and while you’re always invited to share, you never have to. You will be guided by me to connect to your innate wisdom and brilliance to receive exactly what you need to be supported this month. I’m a coach with fifteen years of experience, leading circles and guiding womxn to reclaim the fullness of who they are before the world tried to tell them who they should be.

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I felt called to change THE Fullness Circle to OUR Fullness Circle because when you find the safe place to land and connect with other female identifying folks, it’s important that you know this isn’t any old circle. It becomes your circle of people. It becomes the well we keep agreeing to gather at from month to month to replenish and fill ourselves up. It is where we have full permission to show up exactly as we are without apology. Where we slow down to check in with ourselves and each other. Where we pause to check in with our hearts before rushing into our usual mind based planning.

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If you never attended a circle before and want to know what they’re like, message me and I’d be happy to share with you so you can see if you vibe with me and if our circle is for you.

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Bring a new sister/friend for free!
And If you want to attend all 4 upcoming circles let me know so you can save.
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If you’ve attended my circles before leave a comment and please share/repost saying what you loved about our circle so others who are meant to find us will.

If money is an obstacle please talk to me, these circles are free for BIPOC folk and your contribution makes that possible.💓

This was the mantra of a meditation practice I was led into, on a presencing practice where for each breath we say each word. “I am here now in this.” There is no pausing between breaths, just a continual cycle of in and out. Observing mind and body. Today I drew it. This reminder to stay in this. Whatever THIS is- however this shows up today.

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This tightness, this clenching, this holding- without trying to label it or name it or make up stories about it.
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This opening, this tingling. This heat.
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What happens when we can stay with this without trying to run from it. Without trying to fight it? Just being with the sensations like we are holding hands with a toddler who is pointing and wanting our attention. Showing us that where attention goes energy flows. Where attention goes, intention follows.
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What happens when you say these words aloud to yourself?

Here’s my next offering coming up for you all. I’ll save you a seat at my virtual circle for the Spring Equinox.
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The equinox is a powerful time of year to mindfully pause and choose what seeds you want to plant for the coming year.
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As we learn to use our inner wisdom to listen, and feel into the questions emerging we can align with the earth’s natural cycles to find our own rhythm. We can see where we might be pressuring ourselves when we’re not ready; We can feel into what is blossoming and blooming; and what is still in the resting phases and what needs composting. We can feel into what is out of balance and what support we need so we can stay in alignment with ourselves.
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Hope you can join us for this ritual playshop. Once you sign up with your PayPal donation I’ll send you all the details!
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Happy international womxn’s day.
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Today I’m thinking of the courage of Meghan Markle to speak her truth last night and not be silenced or shamed. I’m thinking of the first female American Vice President Kamala Harris, of the power of Nobel Peace Prize winner Stacey Abrams who did something about voter suppression in Georgia , of Jacinda Ardern NZ Prime Minister breastfeeding her child at the UN, of Christine Blasey Ford’s courage, of the womxn on the frontlines of the protests in Myanmar, of all the womxn who have stepped up to let their voices be heard, to be the firsts so that little ones can look up them as examples of what it’s like to leading and living with authenticity, courage, vulnerability and fierce determination. To do the unimaginable so that it could be imagined by others. Thank you!
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Ma Kyal Sin was 18 years old when she was murdered on the streets of Myanmar as she protested with thousands of others.
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She wore a black T-shirt that day that read “Everything is going to be okay.” 😢
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The women in Myanmar are leading the protests and putting their lives on the line for future generations. They are the brave warriors of this movement.
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Ma Kyal Sin would tell her friends “if you see a star think of me” so tonight when you gaze up at the sky, think of your own freedom, even during a pandemic- celebrate your rights and use your voice to help elevate others voices who no one is listening to.

I had this experience last week. It was the first time in a store in a very long time. I was with my son. He was in the stroller and a woman approached us. I was cornered and couldn’t easily move out of the way. She was remarking how cute he was and also asking what nationality I am and how all her doctors are Jewish-🤷🏻‍♀️and although she seemed harmless she was also getting a little too close for comfort. At one point she stood in front of the stroller and pulled down her mask so my son could see her smiling...
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And I noticed that my default nervous system response was not to say -“move back!”, “back off!” (Fight) Or to step further away (flight) it was to be frozen there in place.
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I learned how fawning is another social nervous system response, a way that we try to appease, how some of us want to seem nice(so we don’t get attacked)- and that was also my worry- what to say so I wouldn’t seem like a “bitch” (a word I never use to talk about others And cringe when I hear) but I was so annoyed at myself because I am now a mama who wants to be able to stand up for and protect my little guy. And the paralysis is real!
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I’ve been working on regulating my nervous system with amazing tools and therapists like breath work, kundalini, somatic experiencing- which are all helping but I just wanted you to know that I’m still learning. And what if it’s ok for you to fumble? To not always “get it right?”
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Give yourself permission to practice setting boundaries and being uncomfortable because that is how we grow. It’s never going to be easy but it will get easier.
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Remember we’re in a global pandemic and you’re doing the best you can. 💓
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What if we can practice being in the in between space of FIERCE KINDNESS?- we don’t have to be all fierce and have rigid boundaries that act like walls, and we also don’t have to be like sponges taking in everyone else’s s**t. We can be fierce and kind at the same time, we can say please, we can assert our needs while still staying true to ourselves.
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I would love to hear how this lands for you and where you’ve been challenged when it comes to saying no or setting a boundary? What have you said to strangers invading your space?

Coming up tomorrow eve.
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