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Beautiful perspective regarding grief❤️💔❤️

Honor Your Grief ❤️‍🩹

We each have an individual story to tell with Grief.

As you allow yourself to grieve and open your heart and body to the rhythm of your own soul and body…Your Divinity… you begin to heal and rebirth with every breath you inhale and exhale into Your True Story of Existence.

So please stop comparing your grief to another, for who are we to decide how others should feel and their Individuation Path of Love and Light … It is the Journey Home with God, through God, from God and to God…the Eternal Divine Union.

How often was I judged and blamed by others for my story of grief?

Let me tell you some Truth from My Individual Expression of Grief:

I learnt to liberate myself, for grieving the loss of my mother or uncle or friend or home or my family or my car or my dog or my ex-partner or … I learnt that Grieving is to romance with the seasons and cycles of life as within so without, as above so below and all around… All is Divine Love.

So let me tell you something, now when I remember, how closed ones used to tell me “be grateful your mother died, when you were young, or be grateful you made it healthy out of the accident, or be grateful for surviving your battle with life and death at the age of 2, or be grateful that you didn’t get married for you would have lived a miserable life and eventually got divorced, or …” I learnt that these are their limitations and methods of their defense mechanism and survival mode patterns and strategies.

Every judgement helped me to reclaim my Voice, my Womb Consciousness, my Feminine Wisdom and Power…returning to the song 🎶 of my own heart.

Grief never stops, for love never stops…we only learn how to embody the flow of life and flow with the river of Divine Wisdom and Blessings as we show up to Life with A YES from the core depth of our own Being.

So next time someone tells you how you should grieve…let them be… send them love and light from your heart to their hearts and return to the Softness of Your Own Story of Life.

From Sarah with Love ❤️
✍️ Sarah Moussa - The Writer
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Holiday host etiquette: If you’re inviting someone to your home and they’re grieving, be sure you’re inviting their grief to attend, too. It will be there, anyway.

Don’t invite someone with the goal of cheering them up for the holidays. Don’t expect them to put on a happy face in your home. Don’t demand they fake it til they make it or do something they don’t want to do, either.

Invite them with the loving intention of offering cheer and companionship and unconditional care during the holidays. To do this, you will need to honor and be responsive to their needs and emotions.

You can do this by privately acknowledging their grief when you make the invitation:

“I know this season is extra hard and your heart is hurting. You and your grief are welcome in our home. Come as you are, we’d be honored to have you with us.”

It’s also incredibly loving to honor the reality that it’s often hard for grieving folks to know what they will want, need, be up for, or able to tolerate at the holidays.

Giving them an invite without the need for commitment and permission to change their mind is extra loving:

“You don’t have to decide right now. If it feels good to be with us, we will have plenty of food and love for you-just show up! I’ll check in again the day before to see if you’re feeling up to coming over and if there’s anything you’d like me to know about how we can support you.”

Your grieving friends and fam need attentive care and responsiveness at the holidays, not plans to keep them busy, distracted, and happy.

If they’re laughing, laugh with them.

If they’re weeping, ask if they’d like your company or your help finding a quiet place to snuggle up alone for awhile.

If they’re laughing while weeping, and this is more common than you’d think, stay with them - this is a precious moment of the human experience that is truly sacred.

We don’t need to protect ourselves or each other from grief at the holidays. In fact, the more we embrace grief as an honored holiday guest, the more healthy, happy, and whole our holidays will be. 🙏☮️✨🎄

Sarah Nannenl

Thank you salmon for showing me that death is a natural part of life and that we have an opportunity to let go of the past to move forward. Thank you for reminding me that life is precious❤️

My final wishes at the end of my life include dying at home with my family and friends around me.

Have you thought about where you want to be when you die?