Mercy Murc

Someone said that, most of the time we don’t want to heal because pain is the only connection we have to what we have lost. So healing feels like letting go. And letting go feels like losing them all over again…

Think about that grief you cannot let go off. Either of a loved one who passed away or a relationship or friendship that long died.

Sometimes we keep revisiting the wound because it reminds us that what we felt was real and mattered. That they too mattered. But healing does not mean forgetting or that love disappears. It simply means you are learning to carry the memory without allowing it to carry your life away with it.

We need to understand that honoring what we lost does not require us to remain broken forever. You can miss them deeply and still choose peace. You can remember them fully and still allow yourself to smile again. You can let go of the pain without letting go of the meaning.

I’m looking at your glass to see if you need a refill. You’re looking at mine to see if I have more than you. One mindset is driven by care while the other is driven by comparison.

I find joy in making sure the people around me are okay. You find concern in measuring what others have against yourself. While I’m thinking about how to add value to your life, you’re counting what you think is missing from yours.

That’s the difference between us. I believe life becomes better when we lift others up. You believe life is a competition that must always be measured.

Some people enter a room carrying generosity. Others enter carrying envy and the need to always be in competition. And eventually, both reveal themselves without saying a word.

Have you ever heard someone say they have “natural hate,” for someone? Finding themselves disliking another person for no reason whatsoever. Well there is no such thing as “natural hate.” What people often call hate is usually discomfort within themselves. Someone’s presence can make you feel small or exposed, and instead of facing that, it turns into resentment.

Some people naturally challenge others just by being who they are. Their presence brings reflection, and for those not ready to grow, that can feel threatening. It can trigger their insecurities so much, leading to this intense dislike.

So friend, if people often react cold towards you for no reason, understand that you are not the problem, but they are. It may simply mean you stir something within them. That is not something to take pride in, but something to carry with awareness. You can be an intern and still shake a whole CEO with your presence. You can be unemployed and still threaten people with stable, good jobs. It’s all in the aura.

Sometimes what feels like hate is just unhealed parts of someone being brought to the surface. Your light will blind those who are still healing.

Happy New Week!!

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Word of the Day!!!

Jesus is not just another voice in your life. He is the only Shepherd who leads to real life, while every other voice, no matter how appealing, slowly takes something from you. He knows you personally and calls you by name, but He will not force you to follow. You have the power to choose whose voice to obey, and that choice shapes your life. If you ignore Him, you will wander; if you follow Him, you will find clarity, purpose, and life in its fullness.

Happy Sunday!🙏🙏

Day 23, Chapter 23!!

“It’s just a bad day, not a bad life.” This is one of my favorite chapters in the book.

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